Dear Mom…

   
As I start my yearly letter to you, I’m in Tortola, the British Virgin Island. Yesterday we were in St. Thomas. I’m on a cruise…first one in many years. I’m also writing this ahead of time because I’ll be out at sea tomorrow. 

I’m here with Brandon (yes, he’s still married and we’re still just best friends), some of his wonderful new friends from Savannah, and a whole posse of amazing people from Buffalo. We’re all really having a great time. 

It’s not lost on me…the fact that I’m on a cruise 8 years after your passing. 

Yesterday was a little difficult in St. Thomas. The last time I was there was the day after you died and I got off the ship to fly home. The weather wasn’t great yesterday, but it was nice to go back to the island and leave with a happier memory. Especially since our cab driver was the spitting image of Mr. Mac!! 

My friend Anthony from the UK is on the trip with me. We’re having a very nice time as we haven’t seen each other in a very long time. 

Last year was pretty good. I did a bit of traveling. Still working like a dog, but I have you to blame for that. Never do your job half-assed. Those words stick (and haunt) me to this day, Mom. Only kidding. 

The year didn’t end so well. Claudia was diagnosed with a brain tumor the week before Christmas. Thankfully after a very long surgery she’s on the road to recovery. I can’t help but think you and George we’re looking after her and us as we worked extra hard to support her and push her. She’s doing better now. She’ll start a form of Chemo sometime next month, but everyone tells us she’s going to be ok. But, please keep watch over her. 

I’m still single…and Mom it’s really ok. When the right person comes along, I’ll know. So please…stop worrying. I’m not lonely. 

Health wise I’m doing ok. My weight loss slowed a bit last year, but I still managed to lose throughout the year. I’m already back to the gym and determined to get down to a more healthy weight. So again, stop worrying. 

I’ve spent quite a bit of time with TJ the past few months. He is such a terrific young man. Smart, caring and worries about others like his Mom, but in a calmer way. He is truly amazing. Will, who you never got to meet is growing up fast. I haven’t seen him in a few months, but you rarely see him without a smile on his face. He’s just a little big boy. 

I can’t post any songs for you this year, but you should know…every where I’ve been the past two days, I’ve heard “No Woman No Cry,” “Jammin,” and “Buffalo Soldier.” Three of your absolute favorites. So hopefully that allows me to take a pass this year. 

I love you and miss you everyday. Thank you for for all your sacrifices, tough and unconditional love. I’m grateful for them every day. 

 Love,
Christopher